the word itself describes its integrity...the heaviness of the word may just go above your head..but the thing 'life' is really light..and can be well stable for one, if lived in a nice way.. the best way to live life in my opinion is to live mostly for others, i do not debate on always being sacrificing..but yeah..one should try at least to be humble enough to sacrifice in the appropriate amount..which is quite reasonable.. ;)
no one gets bankrupt if the person things even a bit for others. i seriously feel disgusted for the people whose life revolve around 'me, my ,myself ' words..irritating.!
i believe in one straight thing that the things that affect the most are the minutest things in nature... take small lies, ignorance, taunts for instance.!
being humble could prevent these things, but not every time, sometimes its good to put up your pint, its good to express you wants, you too have a life, you too have expectations and yes, it does feels like shit when people dump your feelings.! no precautions for this one buddies..sorry :)
'life' ...pronounce it loudly..you will definitely feel a sensation on your lips too, likewise, life helps you a lot getting up, living life, and just taking in the positive things, ignoring what you dont like.!
if you have made your efforts and still same things happen;;just leave it..no one is going to pay you to feel bad.! if someone is not caring about your feelings, then after a certain limit even you should stop it too.. come on you a re a human being too...and you too have self-respect...and believe me, people are going to respect you when you respect yourself...
have dignity, why to allow anyone to hurt you when you actually have the wholesome power to prevent the whole scenario.
remember life is beautiful, only when it is lived beautifully..!
in practical, there are many things which could be disheartening for you...why is it so...when you try not to feel bad, still you do...when you want to act normal but you just fail to do so..when you wish to but you can not make others believe that you are fine..why is it so? well, you now theres a solid reason behind this..the reason being inner self'..! you can not be possibly so good that you stop thinking about yourself...trust me..you can not allow this to yourself..!
thinking about yourself is not bad at all, its good, even you are allowed to let your self free, laugh to freedom and just give a damn to every single thing bothering you.!
keep loving...be happy.!